Originally Posted by
jphendrix83 
Not really to **** him off. I wanted to last night before I found out abt it but fought the urge. It just seems harder to fight knowing that he did that while I was in detox. He says he's not gonna drink to help me. I haven't done it yet because I feel like that week would be a waste if I did. Should I just let it go? If so how?
Holding on to it, and being angry isn't going to help you move forward. Let it go, and if he is not going to drink around you that will be very supportive! I stopped drinking, but my husband has not. It made things a little more difficult in the beginning, but the decision to get sober was mine.
I always try to remember we can't control others actions, just how we react to them. Let it go, and focus on you. How are you feeling after your detox? Did they help you come up with a plan for moving forward?