Tufty- thank you for your time and advice and I'm so sorry to hear your story.
I'm pretty new to this hence having no idea what I was getting into. I help people in wheelchairs walk how hard can it be to stop someone having a drink .. Or so I thought..
I understand what your saying and what everyone has said and I have stepped back and taken their advice.
But there are success story's too I've read them on here, I'm not saying I'm in denial like I said I've stepped back and given her the choice to change.
But I'm trying to stay positive the plans we made together will help her pull through :-(