Originally Posted by
snarky 
Mike,
Thanks so much. I'm really glad to see your perspective -- this is amazing to me the changes that can be made. I guess the next step is to get the book and start working on each step. I'm confused about the groups - should I only go to one of the BB groups or what's the best way? I'm sorry for all the questions. I was so confused today I had some selective hearing ....
i did get the book and read it and think and think and think about all those steps i read....and nothing compared to actually getting a sponsor person and having good guidance and someone i could trust alongside me.
so my suggestion would be to go to a few more meetings and listen to people's shares and then ask someone who lives in the way you want a good sober life to be if they would guide you through the step-stuff.
you can read a pamphlet on it here:
http://www.aa.org/assets/en_US/p-15_Q&AonSpon.pdf