Thanks everyone. I didn't see anyone as being unsupportive and agree it is all around a terrible situation for everyone. I don't think my husband inviting his parents for 2 weeks right away was the best response to this terrible news (they live on the opposite coast but he did fly right out for a 4 day visit there). He didn't even know I was an alcoholic until I went to rehab and has no idea what this is like. That said it is done, tickets purchased, and I am just going to have to make it through minute by minute, and be gracious and sober. And then I will kill him.