Originally Posted by
awuh1 
How you deal with your resentments will be every bit as important as how you deal with your in-laws.
This. Yes this. And not just for you in the next few weeks with your in-laws. But for all of us in recovery , always, with every resentment possible, justified or not. Letting go and Acceptance are key to sobriety. Not 'strength of will', or 'fighting it' as I originally presumed.