PS. On relatives that NEVER drink. It's sometimes worth asking them WHY they never drink. I asked my grandmother this, as she would never touch a drop. Apparently when she was a kid /young teen, she was sent to pick up the alcohol supply for a party (they could do that then). On the way home, in the heat of the day, she stopped and decided to take a sip to see what it was like. Several hours later her brother came to find her. She'd drunk til she passed out. He carried her home. She said she knew that was likely to happen again if she took a drink.
I was the same as her, minus the insight about it would keep happening.