omg WTBH, that is _huge_. I can't even imagine how incredibly stressed out and worried you must be. We are all here for you.
Don't you worry about updating us or anything like that. Take care of you and your girl _first_ and we will just hang out and wait for you to update us when you happen to get around to it.
... and if anybody on SR give you the slightest bit of attitude you just let me know. SR is supposed to be supportive of you, and that is to be done with kindness and compassion.
Mike
Moderator, SR.