wantobehealthy.....my children's father had the same cold heart......
It became so much easier when I was finally able to completely accept the fact, that, no matter how much it sucked--that he was flawed, all the way to the bone...and, that he would never change and that I might as well never expect anything from him, again......
I am sorry that he is the way he is....and, I am hoping for a good outcome for your daughter....
dandylion