Drinking 5 days out of the week seems excessive. However, being an alcoholic isn't about how often we drink, but how we drink. I cannot take a drink without craving more. I don't think I have ever had just one (I never wanted one! I wanted it all). The 12 steps are best worked with a sponsor (someone who has worked the 12 steps themselves with a sponsor) because they will help us work them best. Glad your here!