yeah sleepie we ask "what is good enough?" should say instead "what is, is good enough"
and your right blindly moving forward sometimes is the only solution you got and ya may not like it and it may seem like it aint working eitehr but it beats drinking and drugging so hey whatever.
I remember working a job one time (hospice) and we had to clean rooms after patients died. One guy man he was always happy. patient could vomit and crap all over the room have aids TB and gangreen and he'd go in there with a smile and clean it all up. I said to the one guy i worked with what the hell is up with this guy what makes him so stinking happy all the time? He's like where he is at right now in life is so much better then where he was before so to him this is great!. I was like geeze cant imagine where he was before.
The old cartoon of the guy pushing the wheel barrow around in hell smiling and whistling happily comes ot mind lol.