Originally Posted by
SoulShine8 
misscostalot
I been there and done that too many a time in my party days. I always seem to fall for the biggest loser around each time. I don't know whether I am rooting for the underdog or wanting to fix him. Who knows?! Or maybe it's just that I'm swimming in a kiddie pool choice-wise.
It's good that you can see he wasn't a good choice. Just keep that in your head. I've cried too many tears over people that sure weren't worth them. Being alone isn't a bad thing - use this time to take care of yourself without having to worry about someone else and their hangups.
It's the same for me. ...I get it into my head I can 'take care of' and normalise the biggest loser in the room!
I know that this is to do with my own self esteem and that I need to establish better boundaries. Thanks for sharing your similar experience, nice to know I am not alone.