Well, there's nothing you can do about him anyway. The only way I managed those early months was by focusing on my own side of the street. I needed all my energy and focus for taking my own inventory. The days that I tried to take anyone else's were the days that my sobriety suffered (the quality of it I mean - thankfully I didn't relapse, but it would have been easy to on the back of any resentments I might have formed about other people's drinking).
Acceptance is key to this recovery business.
Wishing you all the best in your journey to sobriety and recovery.