Fantail nailed it. He's abusive.
-Accidental physical damage.
-not wanting you to be successful in your chosen career.
-suicidal threats
-verbal abuse.
-controlling (you're too hot?! ?!) (CLASSIC).
Get out. Work on the drinkin.
Although there's never a better time to get sober than now, I guarantee he will NEVER stop pulling this stuff. NEVER.