I've been battling with similar stuff lately. I thought we were supposed to learn this at age 10 or 11, right? Mind your own bidness. Don't go rummaging through other peoples' luggage? Only offer advice when it is asked for?
I get creeped out by this kind of intrusive busybody activity.
I don't usually have a comeback, because I was raised to ignore this stuff and not stoop to their level - but it bugs me later and I often (just today as a matter of fact) will come to SR and gripe about it. So, I get ya sistah.