What else would you have the forum say Sleepie? Would you rather that we just agree with you and say that you are doomed for life? I'm sorry to say you won't find that here. You receive a massive amount of helpful support here, but some of it wont be exactly what you want to hear. That applies to all of us. Rather than calling those out you don't agree with I'd suggest focusing on what helps and passing on the rest. At the end of the day we are all here to get better.