It seems like no matter what you reaction is to an alcoholic's behavior, it is wrong. How can you be supportive without enabling and unwavering without criticizing and judging?
I was in an eight year relationship with an alcoholic. I did not know how to handle things so I gave up. Now I am married to someone else and it seems I am destined to go down this road again. Maybe this time I can learn and make it though. I know to ask for help this time.