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Old 05-03-2016, 08:41 PM
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fantail
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Honestly from what you've written here I think it's impossible to know whether you're an alcoholic who's relapsed, or whether you're in a relationship with a guy who's kind of controlling and you used to party too much. It sounds like you're not sure either.

Do you have a therapist? That might be helpful. You don't have to keep drinking to figure this out, but you do need to figure it out somehow. If you stay sober for his sake while believing that you probably don't need to, then you'll resent him for it and mess up the relationship anyway.

Wish I had an answer for you. Hang in there, this stuff is tough. But you'll come out better the other side no matter what you learn about yourself.
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