Hi all
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Thank you so very very very very much for all your replies and your support!
I think the biggest problem in my OH's case is that he does not admit there is no such thing as "HAD a drinking problem". In alcoholism there is no past tense.
I am very open with him, and he knows I posted on here. Hopefully he will also read the replies and at least realize it is not worth it even risking it for a glass of wine.
Once again, thank you very much.