I think it's normal for a spouse to hold onto bad memories for awhile. I know when I stopped drinking, I wanted my family to immediately see that I'd changed. Of course that didn't happen and it was not up to me to decide when or if they would forgive me.
Allow your husband to take some time. However, if he is making hurtful comments to you, that could put your recovery in jeopardy, so you might have to make a decision about that.