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Old 05-01-2016, 06:39 AM
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serenitynowplz
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Spouse resentful of recovery

I'm almost at 6 months. My spouse and I had it out bc im tired of him basically being a jerk to me and making me feel like sht. I recently told him that I was pissed that he's been treating me this way. Examples... commenting on my weight in backhanded ways, not being any comfort at all at hospital when I had a reaction to albuterol and my bronchials closed and I literally could not breathe, telling his mom who is crazy and hates me that I was in aa as well as telling some of us friends, and just acting in other nonloving ways. He said he's still angry and hates that I get to just m9ve on with my life while he's left with the memories of what I did. So... not I a good place. Pls give me some insight? Is this expected behavior? He's going to get some counseling so he says and now that I've out up that wall and closed myself off bc im so hurt that my husband doesn't want me to be happy he's paying attn to me again. Advice?
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