Thanks guys! I started 2 years ago with some infa few where I drank, I now have more than 10 weeks continuos, but I didn't want to go into details with her.
Here's the problem. The only reason I know she is an alchy is because of stories. I have witnessed a couple of things that could go unnoticed by normies but I can read as a problem. I'm afraid that if I sit her down for this conversation she is going to feel attacked since I really do t have any first hand knowledge of her drinking... I did tell her that quitting was HARD and she answered "I know...". So maybe that's a clue. She told me she wants to start with a clean slate here. I feel that I'm not allowing that by having these fears and preconceptions.