Thank you all so much. I am too tired to respond to each post but each one meant so much. My granddaughter was so close to her dad and I saw her today and then I got mad at my son. How dare he make his special little girl feel this way? But then I try to remember that he was also sick. I knew he didn't want to do this to her or his son.
We have a good support group in each other so at least that is something. It is a lot actually.
Thank you for each heartfelt post.