Originally Posted by Jaguar
When I walked in there were piles of dog poop (and urine) all over the entry room because he hasn't been letting his dogs out regularly. The house wreaks of stale smoke and urine. The dining table was all grimy with ashes smeared everywhere. It was hot and dark inside (he is always cold and runs the heat high and a space heater and keeps all the windows closed and the curtains pulled so there is no light to reflect and mess with his video games).
Why, if I may make so bold as to ask, would you accept an invitation to "hang out" and watch a movie with someone in the physical surroundings you describe above. He doesn't care enough about himself to improve his physical environment, and it saddens me that you don't seem to have enough self-respect to not place yourself in this situation.
I can only ask, why do you dislike yourself so much that you are willing to hang out in these conditions? You don't need to actually answer that question here, but it may be worth considering for yourself.
You deserve so much better!