Old 04-25-2016, 12:53 PM
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Lenina
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It takes what it takes. Avoid those venues for drinking. Sobriety is more important. The day will come when you feel safe enough to just say no. If you don't want to hurt feelings, send a card, a batch of balloons or some flowers. Along with your regrets. Can you say "Sorry I am unable to attend". ?

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