Old 04-18-2016, 12:01 PM
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teatreeoil007
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Yes, in answer to your question, it sounds as though he is "projecting". With projecting, they essentially accuse you of how they are really feeling themselves and/or accuse you of the very same things they are really guilty of. This type of stuff happens in many relationships to varying degrees. People 'pick' fights, get you riled up, and then project onto you. Many times these types of fights go absolutely NOWHERE except make you feel crappy and worn out and beat up because of it. Don't engage in any way whatsoever. Walk away, get out of his presence. You don't need any of what you are describing. Even if he does not physically touch you, it's mental and emotional abuse and it can turn you just as black and blue inwardly as if he left bruises all over you body. This is an abusive relationship.
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