Originally Posted by
Hangnbyathread 
Remember they consider chaos and drama as thier comfort zone. They can not only survive but often thrive in that environment.
My STBXAH went to counseling when he was a teen. He told me that this is what his counselors told him...that he was so used to chaos (his parents divorced when he was young and his mom was always moving him and his brother around, etc.) that he didn't really know how to live without it, so he would create it.