WTBH......agreed. No responding if GOOD.
Now----what about finding someone to screen all of his e-mail correspondence to you. You have agreed, (to us), that this would be the most humane thing for YOU.
Also, how about your search for a therapist for yourself that is trained in abuse?
These are things that you CAN do for yourself that will pay off, in spades, to your sense of peace....and, the feeling of getting some control back in your life.....
dandylion