Originally Posted by
redatlanta 
Is it out of the question to move? He is in another State, correct? He is already not using his parental time with the girls. Perhaps some further space to a State that will be more friendly to the custodial, normal parent, rather than the nutty PITA?
I could move, yes.
But I have a good job, friends, the girls are established....
But it is an option...
Of course if I moved as opposed to him moving and failing to ever show for parenting, he would undoubtedly ask to have the kids for longer periods over breaks...
My State, via several Supreme Court (state level) cases has established that the State we are in now maintains jurisdiction over the matter of custody, regardless as to where I might move...
I have looked into this extensively...
I would have been wise to go 1 hour south when I filed and done this divorce in another state-- I had NO idea he would fight endlessly over this...
It's clear now and has been for some time that this is all about his control of ME and that this will not end.