^ I agree. I also think the court ordered battered program just set him up with more ways to abuse you-he learns about an use and does it more. Lovely. WTBH-I need you to understand that this is just what they do. When they are called out or do not do something that they are required to do, they snap and lash out. I've seen it with my ex over and over again. Please get to a counselor and get some more support. Hugs....