My husband stopped drinking around me. Occasionally he'll go out with the guys and have one or two, but he never gets drunk. It feels great to know he's so supportive. Getting sober is a HUGE life change-and one that feels so uncomfortable, and I still have to stomp my feet mentally about it from time to time. And he's my partner-he's going through this WITH me-that's just the nature of marriage, in my opinion.
We're going to Mexico in May and he won't drink while we're there. He could, but he won't. We haven't talked about it at all-I just know he wouldn't do anything to make me uncomfortable.
I really try to avoid situations where people are drinking. It's just annoying, it makes me miss drinking when I normally don't even think about it. Our lifestyle/friendships/everything has changed, and I think it was just a necessary part of change and moving on.