Yeah, demons for sure. The difference I see is just the way we were raised. I was always brought up to respect and be kind to people, so, naturally, I became a codie, and, even in the height of my alcohol abuse, I never fought with people, tried to tear them down, or abused them. However, she was never taught to respect anyone. Her mom doesn't even respect herself. So, we had disagreements on cops, rules, etc, and she disrespected me because she didn't know how to respect anyone. Abuse wasn't far off from disrespect, and a lack of empathy for anyone completes the picture.