Too right. We gotta deal...problems just won't miraculously go away. But, for myself I have found that I do FEEL better mentally and physically in such a way that helps me problem-solve. Dealing with overbearing relatives-well, you'll reach a point in which you feel more up to taking them on when they start to cross your boundaries. Healthy boundaries are so important. I have found that one of my triggers is when my boundaries are being invaded and it causes me to feel the need to 'escape'.