So it appears whether it is friendships for my kids or relationships for me, unless I move cross country, xAH or his reputation are going to continue to cause harm.
Naw - your ex isn't you. This guys just wasn't it, and that's ok - cowardly as he was. It is absolutely good you know now.
It's a good indication of progress for me that I did not reply and try and "explain"...
YES - high five to you!!!