Originally Posted by shortstop81

Then I think you know what you need to do, Acheleus. Stand your ground and me true to yourself. If the relationship is not giving you anything positive, then you need to move on.

I ended my marriage after I got sober. Was it the hardest thing I ever did? Yes. But was it the right thing to do? Absolutely. Sobriety gave me the insight and the tools to deal with the serious problems in my life.