WTBH,
ummmm, NO. It's a complete sentence. I don't know if Wednesday was written in on parenting time. If it was situation might have been different then. You do not take time off from work with no notice to jump through his hoops.
I also believe there was something in the parenting time in your divorce papers to give you 2 day notice.
So............ "NO".
He is ramping things up because you are getting stronger. Don't back down now and give it to him. He will then control you for the rest of the time you need to interact with him.
Save all of the emails, vms, any other communication.
I think you recently said you got money, forgot how, if it was the sale of the ring or perhaps a tax refund, use this, take him to court.
Use that "indemnification clause" and get him to pay your attorney for him not paying that child support.
Just let him be the a$$ that he always is, and document, document, document.
I don't say these things lightly. I was probably one of the biggest "doormats" to ever be on this forum.
I really do thank you for posting all of this stuff here. I hope that it helps you, and I hope it helps others when reading this.
(((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))
amy