I am going to be the unpopular one. Liz, I am so happy that you are happy. However, my stance on moving in together has changed, especially with kids involved. I think people should get married and then move in together, I don't think it should happen before. The world has changed a lot, not for the better.
This is just my .02 of course. No matter what you decide to do, I am behind you. However, I won't lie, I am glad to hear you say you think you will wait.
Many hugs.