Yes, ladies, and like I said in my post: I want to wait. My son will be 18 in November. I have turned this whole thing over to God. I honestly think my BF and I need to know each other better before we completely blend our families. There is no rush.
If he really wants to be with me, he should be willing to wait for me. It's as simple as that. I am grateful that he brought this all up because it's given us a chance to air some grievances(pet peeves like about the toilet seat and toothpaste in the sink), figure out what our future obstacles may be, and has opened up a new line of communication. I'm hoping we get closer through this even if I have to put him off for a few months. My lease is up after the holidays and you know, it will be here before we know it.
Thank you all for always supporting me and being with me through this journey!