I hadn't noticed your absence. I now know you volunteer with SR. I thought you might have but I wasn't sure. I have never expected instant replies from you or anybody. I was just hurt when you were online and around when I was, and did post to others here and not me. It just seems you post in reply to the same small group of people all the time (eg... OOTT being 1 example). Could just be me thinking that. Now I'm sounding jealous. ....it's not that....it's about 1 member posting a struggle and another posting something like they are going to do some gardening.....and the person struggling being completely overlooked yet the person thinking about gardening gets a big reply. I just don't get that I'm sorry.