I just wrote about how proud I am of all 3 of my kids today. But, all 3 of had some immense struggles when they were younger.
My oldest daughter struggled for yrs w/drugs, alcohol & boys/men...today, she is a devout Christian, owns her own business, and is struggling a bit w/her marriage, but they are working on it.
My middle daughter started having sex at the age of 14, smoking pot same age, drinking and xanax a few yrs later...today, she has a wonderful man, an awesome 5yr old son & owns her own business.
My youngest, son, overcame an adderal addiction 2-3yrs ago, gave it up when I gave up drugs in Aug. 2014....today, he is very happy, single and has a great job.
I'm telling you this because kids can get better. I know it's just about impossible to not worry about them, but you must learn to.....leave it in God's hands if your a Christian.....or find ways to calm your anxiety, like meditation.....preferable, both.