Originally Posted by
Cococo 
Im feeling upset and angry at myself for telling her any of my business. My 2 brothers (I have 2 siblings) tell her nothing. One hasn't seen or spoken to her in 15 years. The other one speaks to her weekly only because they get free childcare from her. He told me they couldn't survive without the free childcare from her. And everybody else in her family, her brothers and sisters etc avoid her like the plague.
Why did I open my trap!
I fall into the same trap on occasion with my mother. I know not to do it, but sadly still keep hoping she will become human....like hitting my head against a wall. Just know you are not alone!