Originally Posted by
Sadie1 
It reminded me of all the hidden bottles, injuries, lies, etc.
I've done plenty of this [and worse]. And it's hard to keep track of the lies when you're not sober. I don't want any more bruises, gashes, broken stuff in the house.
Gosh, I've only been here a few days and already I've been graduated to a new section of the forum.
jobei: great job! That took courage.
I told my husband tonight that I don't want to argue about stupid/ insignificant things anymore. We argued enough about truly horrible things. So I'm cutting him off when he starts. He said OK [glumly]. I [we!] need to put up more such boundaries on avoidable stress.