wanttobe healthy.....I think it is very normal to feel kind of "shaken to the core" whenever there is an disruption or donnybrook that fractures a relationship that had been held closely......
It happened to me a few years ago....with someone that I had considered a "friend".......well, it turned out that I did not know her as well as I thought and she did a very bad thing to me......
I was heartbroken...to say the least.....and it took a while for me to heal (grieve) the whole ordeal.....
I think, in the course of life, this happens to most everyone, at some point.....
It is tough.....shucks, life IS tough, sometimes....
dandylion