Originally Posted by
kittycat3 
KNB I am right there with you. I've been single for 4 years, save for a couple flings. I have started to grow very exasperated with the single life and even feeling sorry for myself that I can't seem to find a partner like most people do.
But when I think about my relapsing, I am glad I can allow myself the space to get healthy and focus on me. If I'm healthy I'll attract a much better partner than when I was using......
Kitty we are thinking the same. I have been single for three years except for a four month fling eight months ago. The main reason why I stayed with him was because he was a heavy drinker like me. We would meet at weekends and get absolutely plastered together. But he had nothing else to offer me and I should have never gone there in the first place.
This year is all about self love. Gonna put myself first and make better choices for myself too. I deserve it