KNB I am right there with you. I've been single for 4 years, save for a couple flings. I have started to grow very exasperated with the single life and even feeling sorry for myself that I can't seem to find a partner like most people do.
But when I think about my relapsing, I am glad I can allow myself the space to get healthy and focus on me. If I'm healthy I'll attract a much better partner than when I was using......