Originally Posted by
Thumpalumpacus 
Sometimes i wish I didn't have any feelings for her any more. We talk and it's very friendly but the more we talk the more I realize that I'm clinging to useless hopes. It's just so bloody hard to let go.
I think it's completely natural and trying to let it go will make it even harder (resistance never works with our feelings.) Please be patient with yourself and the situation, things like this take time.