What Lexie and red said. These guys are idiots and are obviously illiterate as well (I guess that's my exs reason he doesn't do one thing the court orders-even when my attorney sends letters or threatens). My ex only pays support when I file papers against him-he's a narc and only cares about looking good when needed. These "men" disgust me.
As a funny story (not really funny but I have to laugh at his delusions and crazy) my ex was at a soccer practice last fall and conplained to a friend of mine about child support. My friend almost lost it-she knew he hadn't paid a dime until I filed contempt charges against him-he hadn't even paid the current month at that time. My friend was just like, um, there's something wrong with him. Well. Duh. We all know that!