Originally Posted by
tootsl1 
I guess that is all any of us can ask for Thumpa.
I have learned over time to accept that what will be, will be. I wasted so much energy in the past worrying over things I couldn't change, or worrying about things before they did or didn't happen. Now I leave it all in the hands of fate.
This really is it, for me -- accepting what I can't change, making sure that the focus is on my recovery, and trusting that as I better myself as a person, I will draw the people in my life who add to my happiness and not my angst.