Someone doesn't sound that scared anymore, you sound like you are ready to take the bull by the horn. Good for you. !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Remember, the more you stand up to him, the better it feels, and it gets easier every time.
Just remember you are a terrific person, and you really do have terrific children also, and that's all because of you.
I really do wish he would stop his BS for awhile and give you a break.
amy