I guess this is all a good exercise in my having to accept that I can NOT control what he will do-- I thought if I settled, if I appeased, if I was "good" and let him have the sense he "won" in a way, he would LET me go and leave me be...
I thought I was outsmarting him by settling and getting away finally... I thought I was controlling the outcome and avoiding an ugly confrontation in court...
Clearly, until a JUDGE tells him to knock it the hell off, he will continue to do this to me.... So I just have to wrap my head around accepting that this is what it is and not let the threat of court destroy me like Ive been letting it...
I clearly still have a lot of work to do on myself and my need to grasp that I can not control the outcomes even of my own life insofar as his involvement is concerned.... He's going to drag me to court. It is unavoidable....
I hope that he looks like the ass he is for doing this 3 weeks after he settled with me... That surely can't look good...