I am sure I sound like a moron to admit this but he owes me THOUSANDS (in the tens of thousands) in arrears for child support and Im so desperate to not anger and upset him and incur his wrath that I have just let it go... I could ask the court to garnish his wages etc... but I know that any pittance I get from him he will make me pay in any number of other ways...
I feel like a MORON for letting him bully me over every issue and it's no wonder he continues to do so-- clearly Im allowing it...
I thought if I just let EVERYTHING other than the kids safety go he would finally get tired of fighting me and would leave me and the kids be...
It's like he won't be happy until he has broken me completely and Im just about there...